That may be your belief but is is not at all 'unexplainable'. Given the patriarchal nature of Christainity (and other religions) which inherent contains blantant gender discrimination, the femininne aspect of divinity is often neglected. The early founders and writers of Christianity were mostly male and the bias in evident. Centuries of social conditions and norms have rendered God as 'He', and quite rightly many are rejecting that one sided conception and emphasizing the repressed feminine aspect of didvinity to create a more balanced view.
In reality, God is androgenous, constituted of both female and male aspects, and denial of the female aspect has been one of the factors that has caused mass problems in society. All around, the devastating results of male arrogance can be clearly seen, and thus justice and balance can only be realized by given proper credit to the feminine aspect of creation, not merely by pure talk, but also by evaluating all areas and behaviors where gender disciminations and male arrogance manifests.