Sister, you talking about a very important issue that needs to be addressed in all black communities. AIDS is largest agmonst black people in America, the Carribean, and Africa. Look at how Africa is getting decimated with AIDS, it is wiping out entire generations, destroying family trees. It doesn't discriminate, some people are still ignorant and want to believe it only effects battyman. AIDS is only one disease out of many that you can catch sexually. People must learn to keep their sexual drives in check until they know for sure they are with someone they can trust. Don't be afraid to consider mutual HIV and STD testing before jumping in the bed with someone.